My weekend was extremely lovely.
Travis' mom went out of town for the weekend, this led to the above statement.
Let me explain further, Travis and I live downstairs (basement). We have our own kitchen, living room, laundry room, etc. His mom lives upstairs with all the same amenities. I've noticed this is normal here in the midwest (southern girl who grew up in a place without basements).
There are several things that make living with her hard:
1. She does not like me.
2. I'm a rather quiet person, while she is loud. I like to chill and have some music playing at a normal volume. She comes home and immediately turns on more than one TV to a very high volume which leads to me having to listen to The Bachelor and Dancing With The Stars, both shows that I despise, at the same time. My ultimate pet peeve is also having to listen to something from another room. But I digress...
3. Did I mention she doesn't like me?
4. I cannot go upstairs for anything while she's home, it's the most awkward situation ever. I try to be nice and make conversation and she just looks at me weird. Rude.
She left before I had even gone to sleep on Friday. I usually turn a really loud fan on so I don't have to listen to QVC while I try to sleep, but that night, I curled up in bed with no noise. The house was dead quiet, it was beautiful. Saturday mornings are usually hell, but I woke up to silence.
I went upstairs and curled up on her couch, it's so dark in the basement and the living room is so bright. I relaxed, made lunch, watched a little TV and enjoyed it.
Sunday, Travis and I woke up and I decided to drive Travis to work and spend the day in Westport. We left without Travis getting yelled at for anything and did I mention my car was in the garage? Yes, my black car was not in the heat. Joy.
We saw Night At The Museum and had dinner with Alex, then came home to a quiet house and went to bed in the beautiful silence.
Yesterday we decided to just relax. We played some PS3 and went out to dinner. I went to eat a banana and found that they were starting to go bad. It was the perfect time for us to take advantage of the empty kitchen (that I'd cleaned all day Saturday) and made some banana nut bread.
It's delicious by the way.
Now, on to my rant. Since I'm sitting here downstairs listening to the Bachelor or Bachelorette, whatever poor sap wants fifteen minutes of fame and boyfriend/girlfriend for two of those minutes. She got home around 1am and the first thing she does is asks Travis what days he works. He told her that this week he worked Sunday-Tuesday and was off until Saturday. These were his first three days off in three weeks and he took them off for my birthday.
"WHAT?!?!?!?" she yelled and by this point I'm downstairs on the couch shaking my head. "You don't even work full time, what are you going to do for THREE WHOLE DAYS?!?!?!"
Travis quietly explained to her that yes, he does work full time and he'd been working on average 60 hours a week. So he took three days off, all of three of which he had made plans for.
Knowing she had lost, she grumpily said "Whatever..." and left the room.
It's like she just loves to yell at him for stupid stupid things. He's a twenty year old full time college student. He's a grown man, he takes care of himself. He's only in her house for now until he moves away to finish school. It's so annoying.
I cleaned the house in an attempt to make her happy. She scoffed at it and proceeded to make the mess of a 4 year old at 8am while my sleeping self had to listen.
Apartment search starts now!
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